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A Balancing Act - Why I Don't Appreciate a Lot of Mom Advice
We've all heard the phrases. Enjoy it while it lasts. They grow up so fast. They're only little once. Ignore the laundry. Spend time with your child. The house doesn't need to be spotless. These phrases are all true, and well-meaning. I don't mean to contradict them entirely, but I found them frustrating and un-helpful in the beginning. Why? Let's break each one down, and talk through why it's true, and how we can use these phrases properly without letting them steal our joy

Brook Stanbery
Nov 76 min read
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Here. At Last.
It's been so long. I tried writing a blog about a month ago, and it wasn't coherent. I'm trying again. It's been 15 months since I had...

Brook Stanbery
Oct 103 min read
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Backwards and Forwards
I've reached the end of another year. In this post, I would like to take the time to look at a recap of 2024 and some goals and plans for...

Brook Stanbery
Dec 30, 20243 min read
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Journal Entry as a Mom #1: A Rainy Day in the City
I could already hear the rain beating against the cold glass. Little squeals of delight pierced through the quiet of the early morning,...

Brook Stanbery
Oct 6, 20243 min read
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The Pain of Motherhood
“To the woman He said, ‘I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be...

Brook Stanbery
Sep 6, 20243 min read
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Reminiscing - My Pregnancy & Birth Story
Perhaps you've heard a lot of horror stories of pregnancy and childbirth. There certainly are many out there. I hope that if you are...

Brook Stanbery
Aug 15, 20248 min read
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Uniquely Called. Uniquely Equipped
I am fascinated by personality quizzes. Perhaps you've heard of the Enneagram or Myers Briggs. I think it's interesting that in the Myers...

Brook Stanbery
Jul 1, 20244 min read
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Slow Down
At last, an evening at home. Resting. Savoring. Being grateful and present. The last several weeks have been a rat race. We have been...

Brook Stanbery
Jun 1, 20244 min read
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TRAD Wife in this One Life?
"TRAD wife," a title that many women have applied to themselves in recent years and maybe more this year than ever before. It's a new...

Brook Stanbery
May 1, 20242 min read
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Preparation
It's spring now. The early March days are bringing with them soft soil and fragrant early daffodils, and as the land prepares to enter...

Brook Stanbery
Apr 1, 20242 min read
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His Mercies are New Every Morning
It's easy to think about what may be around the corner, such incredible unknowns and moments that sound terrifying. It is easy to fear...

Brook Stanbery
Mar 1, 20242 min read
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Seasons
As I type this post, the snow falls in millions of tiny flakes outside. It’s the second snow this week. How much do we have? I’m not a...

Brook Stanbery
Feb 1, 20242 min read
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A New Year - a New Chapter
The week between Christmas and New Years Day is a favorite. The ballet studio is closed for the week, and I get to spend some more time...

Brook Stanbery
Jan 1, 20243 min read
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Our Christmas Miracle
The fumes of Polyurethane wood stain were visible in the air. I coughed and gasped for breath and covered my mouth with my shirt. I...

Brook Stanbery
Dec 25, 20232 min read
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Christmas Reflections
It's been a while since I've written. My husband and I have been working to prepare the other half of our duplex home into a house that...

Brook Stanbery
Dec 14, 20233 min read
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The Deepest Layer
Healing is a process. A long one. A lifelong one. And lately, I've remembered that truth more than ever. Rather than thinking of healing...

Brook Stanbery
Oct 21, 20235 min read
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Fall Reflections
The season has changed since I last wrote. Summer heat has given way to the chill of crisp mornings and vibrant afternoons. Rainy...

Brook Stanbery
Oct 12, 20232 min read
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Mrs. American Dream - and What She Means for Our Culture
In recent years, I've all but given up on our nation. It seems more and more we are drifting from the core values that made us a country....

Brook Stanbery
Aug 31, 20233 min read
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A Spark - The Story of How I Started Making Candles
The gleam of the flame danced off the wall and flickered around the room, providing a warm ambiance in an otherwise basic apartment. The...

Brook Stanbery
Aug 24, 20232 min read
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Time Management Tips - Minimalist Addition
I got tired of rushing around from one thing to another. I hate multitasking, and constantly trying to shrink my to-do list only to...

Brook Stanbery
Aug 17, 20235 min read
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